Social-Emotional Learning (SEL)
A comprehensive guide to the five core competencies that shape a child's academic and personal success.
SEL is the process of developing the skills needed to manage emotions, build healthy relationships, and make responsible decisions.
Research consistently shows that children with strong social and emotional skills demonstrate higher resilience, better mental health, and greater academic achievement.
Competency 01
Self-Awareness
The ability to recognise how your emotions, thoughts, and values influence your behaviour.

Competency 02
Self-Management
Regulating thoughts, emotions, and behaviours across different situations—including impulse control and stress management.
- Delayed gratification skills
- Setting short and long-term goals
- Self-soothing and anxiety management

Competency 03
Social Awareness
Understanding and empathising with others.
Includes recognising social norms, showing compassion, and resolving conflicts peacefully.
Competency 04
Relationship Skills
Establishing and maintaining healthy bonds.
Focuses on active listening, collaborative work, and respecting personal boundaries.
Competency 05
Responsible Decision-Making
Making constructive and respectful choices about personal behaviour and social interactions.
? Frequently Asked Questions
The Holistic Value of SEL
The five competencies are deeply interconnected. Developing a well-rounded child requires looking beyond behaviour to help them cultivate the lifelong skills they need to thrive into adulthood.
Social-Emotional Learning • Part 16
Mark Else
My experience ranges from running playgroups for pre-schoolers to managing complex safeguarding caseloads within both mainstream and SEMH provisions. In addition to having worked within the education sector since 2018, I am currently studying for a Level 6 Youth Work degree.
References
- What Is Social and Emotional Learning? - Child Mind Institute
- What Is Social-Emotional Learning? - Committee for Children
- What is SEL? | The Social Emotional Learning Foundation
- How Strong Is Your Emotional Literacy? - Verywell Mind
- What Is Social and Emotional Learning? - CASEL
- Fundamentals of SEL - CASEL
- Defining Social-Emotional Learning - Harvard Graduate School of Education
- CASEL’S SEL Framework - CASEL